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Elford Austin Stover Jr

July 30, 1935 ~ October 5, 2012 (age 77)

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Bath - Elford Austin Stover, Jr. "A Real Shipbuilder" from Bath Elford Austin "Brud" Stover, Jr., a man recognized throughout Maine as one of the state''s most celebrated all-around athletes, a loyal friend, and great community leader, died early Friday evening, October 5, surrounded by his loving family. Brud, short for "Little Brudder" (his big sister Nancy''s nick name for him) was born in Bath, Maine on July 30, 1935. He was a 12th generation native Mainer, the son of Elford Austin Stover and Lillian Josephine Lee Stover, both of Bath. Brud grew up in Bath and quickly distinguished himself as a naturally gifted athlete whether it was in a pick-up game at Dike School or the YMCA with his childhood friends, or organized competition in any of his three favorite sports; football, basketball and baseball. He began his long, illustrious sports career in local programs where his biggest fans were his parents and sister. At Morse High School his childhood friends joined him on championship teams in baseball and football and tournament bound basketball teams. He graduated from Morse in 1953 and attended Phillips Exeter Academy for a post-graduate year where he was named the schools'' 1954 "Athlete of the Year."

Brud attended Bowdoin College, where for four years he excelled in football, basketball and baseball. He was a stand-out quarterback and safety for the Polar Bears, acquiring spots on the Sunday Telegram''s All Maine Team. Stover was the first basketball player in Bowdoin history to break the 1,000 career point mark, and he starred in multiple positions on the Polar Bear nine each spring. He played semi-pro baseball during his collegiate summers in Nova Scotia and Maine including a stint with the Augusta Millionaires. In addition to being named "All State" in all three sports, he received the Bangor Daily News'' Sports Award for "Maine College Athlete of the Year" in 1957. Even more important to him than sports accolades, was another cadre of lifelong friends comprised of teammates, fellow history majors, Psi Upsilon fraternity brothers, and many other classmates of the great Bowdoin Class of 1958.

Brud married his high school sweetheart, Marilyn Florence Brown, on December 27, 1958. He served in the army for a brief period and then went to work for Mutual of New York. For several years he lived outside of Maine in New York, New Jersey and Chicago, and began his family. He moved back to Bath in the mid-1960''s and went to work for Bath Iron Works where he stayed for over 30 years in Industrial Sales. Upon retirement, he began a productive second career as a manufacturing consultant developing, promoting and influencing small businesses in his beloved home state of Maine. In Bath, Brud was a highly visible community member serving on the town council, from 1964-1968 and as acting Chairman for part of that time. He also served on school board and for two decades coached Bath kids in youth sports. In the 1970s, Brud became a widely recognized and sought after basketball referee for high schools and colleges all over Maine. He chaired the Maine Basketball Officials Association and mentored many referees who to this day are grateful for his instruction and influence. Brud''s numerous awards include: The Ollie Berg Award, induction into The Maine Sports Hall of Fame in 1998, the Bowdoin Athletic Hall of Honor in 2005, and the Maine Baseball Hall of Fame in 2012. Brud was enormously proud of the Mainsail Award that he received from the Morse High School Student Community Liaison Committee in 2010. This award honored his work with fellow members of the MHS class of 1953, developing the Blue and White Classic Golf Tournament; an annual event that has raised over $320,000 for the Morse High School Scholarship Fund. In 2011 he was named Chairman Emeritus of the Blue and White Golf Classic. He also served on the committee overseeing the MHS Scholarship Fund. Brud was resolute in his belief that any child desiring to further their education should have access to financial assistance.

Brud is survived by his dearly loved wife of 54 years, Marilyn Stover; his children Lee Stover of Portland, Susan Garrett (John) of Yarmouth, Tim Stover (Kathleen) of Washington DC, Michael Stover of Woolwich, Marianne Stover of Biddeford, as well as his grandchildren, Nathan and Meghan Stover of Bath; Jack, William and Andrew Garrett of Yarmouth. He is also survived by an extended family of in-laws, cousins, nieces, nephews, and countless much loved friends.

Visiting hours with the family are Wednesday, October 10 from 4-6 pm at David E. Desmond & Son Funeral Home at 638 High Street in Bath.

A memorial service with reception to immediately follow will be held at Bowdoin College in Kresge Auditorium on Saturday, October 13 at 1 pm. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Morse High School Scholarship Fund, Morse High School, Bath, Maine.

To share your thoughts and condolences with the family, please visit www.desmondfuneralhomes.com

For more information on Stover''s athletic career see: http://athletics.bowdoin.edu/information/history/hall/stover http://www.mshof.com/Inductee-21

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