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Dr. Patricia Jean Ames
July 20, 1933 ~ April 25, 2016 (age 82) 82 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Elaine
May 18, 2016 2:49 PM
Ms. Ames was my home room and Asian studies. She was the my favorite teacher. She was so inspiring. I always ran her in Shaws and she would say "Dear could you get that water off the top shelf for me". You see I'm 5'9" and could always reach the top shelf for her. She was the definition of a teacher. RIP
Message from Molly Maguire
May 10, 2016 6:38 PM
I am saddened to hear of the loss of Pat Ames. Growing up with Tricia, starting in the 5th grade, I have wonderful memories of the willow tree in her back yard, visiting the lake, canoeing, and sneaking Oreo cookies from her cookie jar. I also fondly remember receiving her never-ending guidance through her loving, gentle, and wise words, always with an encouragement of imagination. Starting at age 11 when I first met Tricia and her family, it was thrilling for me to also call her “Aunt Pat”. I felt I was part of something special, and I was. Pat Ames was definitely a prominent figure to me while growing up, throughout elementary school, Junior High, and as a teacher to me in High School. Yet, she was always a teacher to me, for which I am grateful. Anytime spent in her presence I felt her love for learning and traveling – she conveyed a strength and independence that struck me at a tender age, and inspired me, and truly stayed a part of me as I explored on my own.
Tricia, I am sorry for your loss; you, your family, and Aunt Pat, are in my thoughts and in my heart.
Much love, Molly
Tricia, I am sorry for your loss; you, your family, and Aunt Pat, are in my thoughts and in my heart.
Much love, Molly
Message from Williams Family
May 3, 2016 8:32 AM
Please accept my sincere condolences for your loss. Know that God is aware of the tears you are shedding. (Psalm 56:18) He will soon do what is said at Acts 24:15, which promises us of a resurrection of our loved ones. May that bring you hope. Take comfort in your good memories and allow your family and loving friends to help you through this difficult time.
Message from David Ingmundson
May 1, 2016 1:23 PM
Pat Ames combined a seriousness about the work with humor, warmth, and a touch for the personal. I can't think of any teacher who had as big an impact on her colleagues, her students, and her community. I know that I will continue to remember her and call on her inspiration when I think about what is special and important about our profession and the school we were lucky enough to share.
Message from Jill Van Note
April 29, 2016 12:17 PM
My condolences to your family and friends at this sacred time.
Dr. Pat Ames: strong, keen, committed, caring, kind....and she didn't pull any punches. She certainly let me know that I should be more interested in CC (Contemporary Civilization) than in the CB (Cute Boy) sitting next to me. Dr. Ames was one of kind. Her character will live on through those of us whom who lucky enough to experience her extraordinary way of being, and for that - I am grateful.
As for the boy next to me? Well, he was pretty cute. And I was, well, you know, 17. RIP dear Dr. Ames.
Dr. Pat Ames: strong, keen, committed, caring, kind....and she didn't pull any punches. She certainly let me know that I should be more interested in CC (Contemporary Civilization) than in the CB (Cute Boy) sitting next to me. Dr. Ames was one of kind. Her character will live on through those of us whom who lucky enough to experience her extraordinary way of being, and for that - I am grateful.
As for the boy next to me? Well, he was pretty cute. And I was, well, you know, 17. RIP dear Dr. Ames.
Message from Richard & Lillian Thomas
April 29, 2016 11:49 AM
Good morning. Sorry for your loss. We intended to attend funeral but got involved with something else and when i realized it 11:30. I talked to her a few weeks ago at Hill House but not sure she knew me. Sorry we missed the funeral and seeing the family.
Lillian & Richard
Lillian & Richard
A candle was lit by The Leonard Family
on April 28, 2016 8:52 PM
A candle was lit by Cynthia Bullington McGovern
on April 28, 2016 8:50 PM
Message from Liana Rubinstein
April 28, 2016 4:54 PM
It's funny how, upon hearing news like this, a single memory will stand out. For me, it was sitting in Asian Studies class c. 1984 and trying to eat M&Ms with chopsticks.
My condolences to the Ames family - Dr Ames was an amazing teacher and one of my favorites. I still have a small statue that she gave to me from her trip to Pakistan on my shelf. She touched the lives of so many and will truly be missed.
My condolences to the Ames family - Dr Ames was an amazing teacher and one of my favorites. I still have a small statue that she gave to me from her trip to Pakistan on my shelf. She touched the lives of so many and will truly be missed.
Message from Lori (Hixon) Stilkey
April 28, 2016 4:45 PM
My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of Dr. Ames. I am truly saddened to hear of her passing. I had Ms. Ames as a teacher at Morse High School for Asian Studies and I remember the amazing stories she would tell of her travels. She was always kind to me and was an awesome teacher. I learned allot from her. I also got the opportunity to know her, outside of school one summer. Our family stayed at the cabin next to hers on Damariscotta Lake. I will always remember that. Thank you Ms. Ames, for all you have done. You will be missed.
Message from Georgetown
April 28, 2016 1:57 PM
Dr. Patricia Ames was a wonderful teacher. When I was her student she praised my ability to write succinctly. Later while in college, her praise helped me keep my confidence during one of my first final exams. As I sat writing my answers to the essay questions I watched most of the rest of the class get up to take a second blue book. Panic to set in because I had not even come close to filling in one book! Then I recalled what Miss Ames had said and I forged on confidently. Her lessons are still with me even as my 40th reunion (MHS '78) approaches!
Message from Kristin Tyler Braymiller
April 28, 2016 1:42 PM
So sad to hear of the death of Aunt Pat. She was such a rich part of my childhood with Tricia and my family. I think of her cabin on the lake often and all of her stories she shared with me over the years.
My sincerest condolences to you all.
My sincerest condolences to you all.
Message from Trish Soucy
April 30, 2016 4:56 PM
Hi Kris, Thank you for sharing condolences. I too remember a beautiful childhood spent at camp with Aunt Pat and all my friends. We were so fortunate to have the gift of her kindness, generosity, thoughtfulness and love. We will miss her every day but we're so happy for her knowing she is now in a paradise where she feels no pain and is not lost anymore. Much love to you, Tricia
An Ocean Breeze Spray was sent on April 28, 2016
You Motivated, You Believed, You Expected Greatness and You Truly lit an Enduring Fire Under Me! Thank You for the Confidence You Personally Gave me in Civics Class at Morse (1979)! What a Gift to the Teaching Profession! With Sympathy, Respect, and Gratitude, Holly Bengtsson Thibodeau
Message from Karen Sue Race
April 28, 2016 6:51 AM
My thoughts and prayers are with you all as you celebrate her life. She touched so many peoples lives as a teacher and taught us many lessons that we cared on...through the lives she touch she will live on....
Message from Rob Mosher
April 28, 2016 12:15 AM
Dear Ames family,
I was deeply saddened to learn of the death of Dr. Ames. She was a dynamic, warm, friendly, caring, and devoted teacher. I still remember the lessons not only about social studies but about life that she taught every day. R.I.P. Dr. Ames.
I was deeply saddened to learn of the death of Dr. Ames. She was a dynamic, warm, friendly, caring, and devoted teacher. I still remember the lessons not only about social studies but about life that she taught every day. R.I.P. Dr. Ames.
Message from Candace Ellen McCabe
April 27, 2016 9:43 PM
How absolutely BLESSED was I to have had Miss Ames in my life! Civics and Social Studies were both classes I enjoyed greatly, due entirely, to her consistent and loving way with her students.
I was going through a rough patch in my life when I was assigned to her classes, and I seriously could not have been more fortunate! Her standards of excellence were "renowned", and with the foundation of respect and trust, she "loved us forward" to be the best we could be as individuals. She was a stellar role model, and I will forever remember and be endebted to her by virtue of the private time she spent with me. I went from feelings of being a "misfit" to the knowledge that we all have important roles to play in life, and that those roles will likely evolve as we do. I never had the opportunity to tell her just what she meant to me; nor to tell her that her support still lives in my heart, share and to love forward.
I stand with all her family and friends at this difficult time in prayers and with love.
I was going through a rough patch in my life when I was assigned to her classes, and I seriously could not have been more fortunate! Her standards of excellence were "renowned", and with the foundation of respect and trust, she "loved us forward" to be the best we could be as individuals. She was a stellar role model, and I will forever remember and be endebted to her by virtue of the private time she spent with me. I went from feelings of being a "misfit" to the knowledge that we all have important roles to play in life, and that those roles will likely evolve as we do. I never had the opportunity to tell her just what she meant to me; nor to tell her that her support still lives in my heart, share and to love forward.
I stand with all her family and friends at this difficult time in prayers and with love.
A candle was lit by Candace Ellen McCabe
on April 27, 2016 8:15 PM
Message from Larry LaRochelle
April 27, 2016 8:11 PM
Our Dear Miss Ames: A master storyteller, motivator, life guide and such an extraordinary teacher. As tough and demanding as she was in the classroom, she made her students feel special, cared for, even loved. She had a unique way of speaking, words chosen so carefully and expressed so clearly. She shared her gift of knowledge and love of learning in the best way -- by imparting in her students that same love. Even as a "social studies" teacher she taught writing and English usage, skills which I use to this day. She gave me my start in reading philosophy and religion and spirituality as well as my interest in politics and government. Her course in "Contemporary Civilization" was no doubt formative for so many of us. Certainly she had a life so very well lived, with many broad interests and civic involvement. I have many happy memories of Miss Ames and feel so privileged to have had her as a teacher. My heartfelt condolences to the Ames family, please know that Miss Ames lives on through all who were blessed to have known her.
Message from David C. Holt II
April 27, 2016 7:24 PM
There is a special place in heaven for teachers like Dr. Ames. Unequivocally the best teacher I have had the good fortune to learn from in my educational life and "career". She had the ability to make me believe I could be much more than I was showing in the classroom. Through her encouragement and ability to make learning fun, she changed my life. Dr. Ames opened up the world for me in her social studies classroom, and I have been exploring it's farthest reaches ever since. Dr. Ames would be happy to know my classroom habits improved greatly during my time in college. She released a powerful urge for learning that I pursue to this day. My only regret is that I never told her in person. Thank you Pat for being such an amazing influence in my life, God bless you.
Message from Chip Callan
April 27, 2016 1:34 PM
Dr. Ames was a student's educational gift as well as a truly kind hearted and giving individual. She set the educational bar that all teachers should be measured to. To this day I fondly recall her inspirational teaching and being held accountable for my responsibilities in the classroom, school and community. It was in her class that I developed an interest in Japan through an extracurricular task she felt I should undertake. Because of this, I was able to enjoy many wonderful and rewarding years living in Japan while engaging in and exploring this culture and interacting with the residents fully. I will forever be in her debt for giving me the "task". Sabishii desu Dr. Ames (I will miss you Dr. Ames). Mata aeru yo ne (Let's meet again someday). To the Ames family I hope you find strength in knowing Dr. Ames positively influenced so many generations of students, families and teachers with her gifts of knowledge, mentoring and wisdom she gave freely. Dr. Ames will be missed but under no circumstances forgotten. With Sincerest Sympathy Chip Callan
Message from Sharon Snell
April 27, 2016 12:46 PM
I am so sorry to her of the passing of Pat Ames. Miss Ames was my favorite teacher in high school. I was fortunate to have her for a teacher in both my Junior and Senior years at Morse and for homeroom in our Junior year. The impact she had on so many students over the years is immeasurable.
A Peaceful White Lilies Basket was sent on April 27, 2016
Pat you've always been an inspiration, Thank you . May you rest in peace with the knowledge that your new home is beauty beyond description. God Bless !!! Clifton Ames and Family
Message from Greg Bartlett
April 27, 2016 6:59 AM
I was a young teacher with only 5 years of experience under my belt when Dr. Ames hired me to be a Social Studies teacher at Morse High school in 1978. She mentored, encouraged, and taught me in her direct and compassionate manner how to teach, deal with students, and grow towards being a teacher leader. She truly was both an educational and community leader....one of a kind. She will be always remembered for the tremendous impact she had on so many people. Love and miss you, Pat. Greg Bartlett
A candle was lit by Janice Longley Brooker
on April 26, 2016 10:23 PM
Message from Maryli Tiemann
April 26, 2016 10:21 PM
Dear Ames Family,
Our family has been enriched by sharing Pat's life with all of you.
She will always be an example of one who loved: each of you, her community, her students, travel, the camp, a good story - never shortened, a good book, constant learning, and her dear parents, especially Ruth.
I'm also smiling at how she insisted that she didn't "cook" but rather just "prepared" meals. How lucky we are to have shared so many.
I love and miss her. Please know our thoughts surround you as we hold her and you close.
Our family has been enriched by sharing Pat's life with all of you.
She will always be an example of one who loved: each of you, her community, her students, travel, the camp, a good story - never shortened, a good book, constant learning, and her dear parents, especially Ruth.
I'm also smiling at how she insisted that she didn't "cook" but rather just "prepared" meals. How lucky we are to have shared so many.
I love and miss her. Please know our thoughts surround you as we hold her and you close.
Message from Barry London
April 26, 2016 9:29 PM
Miss Ames was my Civics teacher at Morse (class of 1977) and expected a lot from her students. When I entered the teaching profession, I credit her for inspiring me, and I sought her out for guidance and to thank her.
Message from Glenice Bennett Ashton
April 26, 2016 8:50 PM
I had Miss. Ames in Morse High.She was one of the best teacher I ever had in High school.She would stay after school to help me so many times. I learned so much from her.She always cared, understood kids like me that had a difficult time in life, made it so I couldn't concentrate on my studies. Thank you for all you did for me in school.RIP
Prayers go out to her family.
Prayers go out to her family.
A candle was lit by Deb and Brad Walfield
on April 26, 2016 7:15 PM
A candle was lit by Glenice Bennett Ashton ( student)
on April 26, 2016 6:44 PM
A candle was lit by Ruth Tyler
on April 26, 2016 6:10 PM
Message from Karen Preston Griffin
April 26, 2016 4:47 PM
Ms. Ames was one of those teachers a student never forgets. She sparked my interests in government and politics that still is present today. I had the gift of talking to her at our 45th anniversary (1966) five years ago. She was indeed a very special human being and my sympathies are extended to her family. Thank you Ms. Ames.
Message from Jean Orr Britton
April 26, 2016 1:54 PM
Dear Carol and family I am very sorry to read of Pat's passing. She was one of my favorite teaches. My thoughts are with you all.
A Peaceful White Lilies Basket was sent on April 26, 2016
We feel truly blessed to have had you in our lives. The world lost an incredibly thoughtful, caring, and amazing person. The wonderful memories that we shared together will live on forever. Rest in peace Aunt Pat. Love Mike, Marybeth, Ethan, and Adalyn
A candle was lit by Brian D. Tyler
on April 26, 2016 11:33 AM
Message from Jan Efflandt
April 26, 2016 9:24 AM
Miss Ames was truly a gift to me in High School. During a troubled time in my life we had several talks after school and she was encouraging, wise and full of compassion. Later in my adult life I contacted her to express my gratitude for those talks and again she was encouraging and wise. Rest in peace dear Miss Ames - I will never forget you.
A candle was lit by Jan Efflandt
on April 26, 2016 9:20 AM
A candle was lit by Sue Ellen Whittaker
on April 26, 2016 9:17 AM
Message from Fran Barter
April 26, 2016 8:09 AM
It is not hyperbole to say Miss Ames changed my life. She encouraged me to take advanced history (Morse High School, class of 1966) and when I told her I wasn't smart enough, she set me straight! The confidence she had in me steered me into the teaching profession and has remained with me. Whenever anyone asks me which teacher most impacted me, I always say, "Miss Ames." She was a gift to the planet.
Message from Kent and Vanessa Leavitt
April 26, 2016 7:49 AM
Mrs. McBride and Laurie, We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Ms. Ames. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Message from David Tiemann
April 26, 2016 6:38 AM
My colleague and friend.
Pat was a loving force in her family, her school, and her community and will be missed by the many whose lives she touched.
Pat was a loving force in her family, her school, and her community and will be missed by the many whose lives she touched.
A candle was lit by Bethany Kinne
on April 26, 2016 12:46 AM
Message from Andrea Galuza
April 25, 2016 10:58 PM
Phil
I just wanted you to know how much I treasured Pat as a teacher at Morse. She was the best. Morse was blessed to have her.
She did so much more that I have emus learned in reading her obituary.
Truly an amazing heartfelt lady.
I just wanted you to know how much I treasured Pat as a teacher at Morse. She was the best. Morse was blessed to have her.
She did so much more that I have emus learned in reading her obituary.
Truly an amazing heartfelt lady.
Message from Kym Granger
April 25, 2016 9:09 PM
I am saddened to hear that Dr. Ames has passed. She was an amazing and inspirational teacher. I had her for Asian Studies and Intro to Economics in 1986. Both of those subjects have served me well and stayed with me. I have a better understanding of the world because of her. I visited Japan, and had a richer experience because I had learned from her.
As an adult, and a middle school social studies teacher, I admire her, and was always happy to see her and chat with her when I saw her. The world is a far richer place because of Miss Ames!
As an adult, and a middle school social studies teacher, I admire her, and was always happy to see her and chat with her when I saw her. The world is a far richer place because of Miss Ames!
Message from Heidi Kirkpatrick (Hanscom)
April 25, 2016 8:24 PM
My sincere condolences to all of Ms.Ames family. I will always remember her as one of my favorite teachers throughout my years at Morse.
I will also fondly remember her as my grandmother's neighbor on Matthews Drive.
She will be dearly missed by all that were fortunate to have known her.
God Bless you.
Heidi
I will also fondly remember her as my grandmother's neighbor on Matthews Drive.
She will be dearly missed by all that were fortunate to have known her.
God Bless you.
Heidi
Message from Kim Vose
April 25, 2016 7:44 PM
I always admired Dr. Ames' wit and intelligence. Her Asian Studies class was a highlight of my high school career. I always chuckle when I think of our trip to Boston's China Town, as Dr. Ames marched our class full of gawking teens right through the combat zone, saying, "Come along! Just step over him (the man passed out on the sidewalk)." She was practical, knowledgeable, and left her imprint on me. I think of her at the beginning of every new semester. I introduce myself almost exactly as she did: "You may call me Ms. Vose, or Dr. Vose, but never call me Mrs. Vose. That's my mother." Rest in Peace, Dr. Ames.
Message from WILLIAM HOWES
April 25, 2016 4:14 PM
one of the best teachers I every had so understanding will miss you forever and a day sweet angel god bless you sweet angel
A candle was lit by WILLIAM HOWES
on April 25, 2016 4:11 PM
Message from Lissa (Hopkins) Nichols
April 25, 2016 2:52 PM
So sad to hear that "aunt Pat" has gone to Heaven.......so very many of my fondest memories were of spending time at her house and camp on the Damariscotta Lake....what a beautiful family they are! I will always remember. SALLISSA!
Heaven has gained a wonderful angel, and if there is any organizing to be done....well...she's your woman!
Heaven has gained a wonderful angel, and if there is any organizing to be done....well...she's your woman!
Message from Linda A levesque
April 25, 2016 1:24 PM
What a warm and knowledgeable mentor for this rookie teacher in the fall of 1979. Loved sharing stories about girls/womens sports---or lack there of---back in the day. I was one of the lucky ones who got to spend time with her and others out at the lake!
It makes my being named a Dr. Patricia Ames Distinguished faculty member even that much more sweet. God bless and RIP Pat.
It makes my being named a Dr. Patricia Ames Distinguished faculty member even that much more sweet. God bless and RIP Pat.
Message from Debbie Williams
April 25, 2016 9:45 PM
I am so sad to hear of Dr. Ames passing. I so loved chatting with her. She will hold a special place in my heart for opening up her cottage for people to get baptized in her water front. It was a special time for me. Prayers go out to the family
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